漢娜是一名從事市場營銷和公關(guān)的自由職業(yè)者,平時在家工作,一周開幾次會,之前,她還有機(jī)會見到其他人,但現(xiàn)在,趕上新冠病毒大流行,客戶預(yù)算變得不穩(wěn)定,網(wǎng)絡(luò)會議推遲,工作也突然變成了純靠郵件交流。
“我們可能習(xí)慣了在家獨(dú)自辦公,但現(xiàn)在完全不是一個層面,”她說?!拔以赯oom聚會上遇到的一個朋友說,現(xiàn)在是非正常營業(yè)時期。我認(rèn)為對許多人來說,最糟糕的一點就是,我們不知道這樣還要持續(xù)多久。”
做文案工作的麗貝卡就發(fā)現(xiàn),自由職業(yè)者跟有固定工作的人有著天然區(qū)別。最近她丈夫在家工作,每天都開云會議,網(wǎng)上聊天也很活躍,“我親眼看到辦公室同事團(tuán)結(jié)友愛,這讓我越發(fā)意識到,自由職業(yè)者無法體驗如此親密的同事關(guān)系?!?/p>
“社會關(guān)系可以增進(jìn)身心健康,”環(huán)境心理學(xué)家李?錢伯斯說。她說,盡管自由職業(yè)者在家可能也有家人或伴侶,但由于缺乏公司辦公氛圍,也不用每天出門,但天天關(guān)在本應(yīng)放松的地方,會導(dǎo)致這些人感覺很難向別人傾訴焦慮,從而影響幸福感和心理健康。
“如果不重視這個問題,”錢伯斯說,“孤獨(dú)的問題會越來越難解決”,進(jìn)一步導(dǎo)致壓力、焦慮和抑郁。那么,該怎么辦呢?
多跟朋友聯(lián)系
現(xiàn)在這個時候去找朋友,聽上去不太合理,因為大家都見不到真人,但是,這的確是發(fā)展和重新鞏固友誼的好機(jī)會?!艾F(xiàn)在是重視社交關(guān)系,將社交與工作結(jié)合的好機(jī)會,”錢伯斯說。
事實上,很可能你所有的朋友,和團(tuán)隊里共事的同事,都在努力適應(yīng)新常態(tài)。他們肯定懷念有朋友在身邊。“給親密朋友打個電話,”他建議?!坝幸庾R地去聯(lián)絡(luò)他們,像開會約定通話,跟他們談?wù)劯髯愿惺?,問問看能不能幫上忙。?/p>
跟其他自由職業(yè)者合作
你可以參加在線會議群組,也可以找同樣從事自由職業(yè)的伙伴,隔天交流下工作情況,只要你跟其他自由職業(yè)者多聯(lián)系,都能形成類似一個“團(tuán)隊”的氛圍。
錢伯斯建議,疫情期間,努力工作的同時,也要注意彼此的陪伴,在工作和心理健康方面積極交流。就像麗貝卡觀察到她丈夫跟其他同事交流一樣,只要想辦法,你也能營造出類似的團(tuán)隊環(huán)境。
制定時間表
宅家時,不要偷懶,一定要制定當(dāng)日計劃,和朋友聊天也要放到日程里!這可能意味著,你一早起來,鋪好床后,再做其他事情,也可能意味著你一早就列出當(dāng)天的任務(wù),也可能意味著你每天中午定時關(guān)掉電腦,小憩一會,不管是哪項,做好計劃都很重要。
而且,雖然窩在被窩里工作很誘人(而且誰知道你是在床上工作呢,對吧?),別這么做。錢伯斯建議,每天換好衣服再上班,就跟要去公共辦公空間一樣,而且也要安排好工作間歇。
定好下班時間
正常情況下,自由職業(yè)者不用打卡下班,所以總是會忘了幾點鐘要結(jié)束工作?,F(xiàn)在,既然無處可去,幾乎全天都離不開電腦,那可以為晚上制定些值得期待的計劃。“可以做點好吃的,追部喜歡的電視劇,或者哄孩子上床,讀個睡前故事,”錢伯斯說,“別忘了,親人一直陪伴在身邊,要多跟他們溝通。”
想辦法幫助別人
現(xiàn)在人人都在疫情中掙扎,所以伸出援助之手,不僅可以幫助到別人,也可以多跟他人建立聯(lián)系。你也許可以給上了年紀(jì)的鄰居送一些食品雜貨,也可以給認(rèn)識的自由職業(yè)者打個電話,問問最近是不是還好。
現(xiàn)在是人與人盡量少接觸的特殊時期,因此,拿起電話,跟人開會、約談,或僅僅只是詢問別人近況如何,這比任何時候都更重要。如果你還有額外的一些技能的話,你還可以拿這些技能去做些好事。“別忘了,不管你有什么情緒,這都是正常的,這是一種集體經(jīng)歷,別人也會有同樣的情緒。”錢伯斯說。
別怕求助
與此同時,為了度過這段孤單的特殊時期,該求助時別猶豫?!斑@段時間里,我們需要人類團(tuán)結(jié)起來,一起共同應(yīng)對挑戰(zhàn),這個時期的人們都會更樂于助人,對他人的需求也更有同情心,”錢伯斯說。疫情中,誰也不是孤島,只要需要,可以隨時打電話求助,就算不是朋友也可以。
特殊時期,也可以尋求各種專業(yè)機(jī)構(gòu)或其它地方民間、政府組織的熱線幫助。別怕求助,尋求專業(yè)咨詢并不等于承認(rèn)自己情況已經(jīng)很糟糕,但專業(yè)咨詢師可以識別一些危險的信號,幫助梳理來訪者情緒,評估創(chuàng)傷狀況,也可以提供一些有用的知識和資源。(財富中文網(wǎng))
譯者:梁宇
審校:夏林
責(zé)編:雨晨
漢娜是一名從事市場營銷和公關(guān)的自由職業(yè)者,平時在家工作,一周開幾次會,之前,她還有機(jī)會見到其他人,但現(xiàn)在,趕上新冠病毒大流行,客戶預(yù)算變得不穩(wěn)定,網(wǎng)絡(luò)會議推遲,工作也突然變成了純靠郵件交流。
“我們可能習(xí)慣了在家獨(dú)自辦公,但現(xiàn)在完全不是一個層面,”她說。“我在Zoom聚會上遇到的一個朋友說,現(xiàn)在是非正常營業(yè)時期。我認(rèn)為對許多人來說,最糟糕的一點就是,我們不知道這樣還要持續(xù)多久?!?/p>
做文案工作的麗貝卡就發(fā)現(xiàn),自由職業(yè)者跟有固定工作的人有著天然區(qū)別。最近她丈夫在家工作,每天都開云會議,網(wǎng)上聊天也很活躍,“我親眼看到辦公室同事團(tuán)結(jié)友愛,這讓我越發(fā)意識到,自由職業(yè)者無法體驗如此親密的同事關(guān)系?!?/p>
“社會關(guān)系可以增進(jìn)身心健康,”環(huán)境心理學(xué)家李?錢伯斯說。她說,盡管自由職業(yè)者在家可能也有家人或伴侶,但由于缺乏公司辦公氛圍,也不用每天出門,但天天關(guān)在本應(yīng)放松的地方,會導(dǎo)致這些人感覺很難向別人傾訴焦慮,從而影響幸福感和心理健康。
“如果不重視這個問題,”錢伯斯說,“孤獨(dú)的問題會越來越難解決”,進(jìn)一步導(dǎo)致壓力、焦慮和抑郁。那么,該怎么辦呢?
多跟朋友聯(lián)系
現(xiàn)在這個時候去找朋友,聽上去不太合理,因為大家都見不到真人,但是,這的確是發(fā)展和重新鞏固友誼的好機(jī)會。“現(xiàn)在是重視社交關(guān)系,將社交與工作結(jié)合的好機(jī)會,”錢伯斯說。
事實上,很可能你所有的朋友,和團(tuán)隊里共事的同事,都在努力適應(yīng)新常態(tài)。他們肯定懷念有朋友在身邊。“給親密朋友打個電話,”他建議?!坝幸庾R地去聯(lián)絡(luò)他們,像開會約定通話,跟他們談?wù)劯髯愿惺?,問問看能不能幫上忙。?/p>
跟其他自由職業(yè)者合作
你可以參加在線會議群組,也可以找同樣從事自由職業(yè)的伙伴,隔天交流下工作情況,只要你跟其他自由職業(yè)者多聯(lián)系,都能形成類似一個“團(tuán)隊”的氛圍。
錢伯斯建議,疫情期間,努力工作的同時,也要注意彼此的陪伴,在工作和心理健康方面積極交流。就像麗貝卡觀察到她丈夫跟其他同事交流一樣,只要想辦法,你也能營造出類似的團(tuán)隊環(huán)境。
制定時間表
宅家時,不要偷懶,一定要制定當(dāng)日計劃,和朋友聊天也要放到日程里!這可能意味著,你一早起來,鋪好床后,再做其他事情,也可能意味著你一早就列出當(dāng)天的任務(wù),也可能意味著你每天中午定時關(guān)掉電腦,小憩一會,不管是哪項,做好計劃都很重要。
而且,雖然窩在被窩里工作很誘人(而且誰知道你是在床上工作呢,對吧?),別這么做。錢伯斯建議,每天換好衣服再上班,就跟要去公共辦公空間一樣,而且也要安排好工作間歇。
定好下班時間
正常情況下,自由職業(yè)者不用打卡下班,所以總是會忘了幾點鐘要結(jié)束工作?,F(xiàn)在,既然無處可去,幾乎全天都離不開電腦,那可以為晚上制定些值得期待的計劃?!翱梢宰鳇c好吃的,追部喜歡的電視劇,或者哄孩子上床,讀個睡前故事,”錢伯斯說,“別忘了,親人一直陪伴在身邊,要多跟他們溝通。”
想辦法幫助別人
現(xiàn)在人人都在疫情中掙扎,所以伸出援助之手,不僅可以幫助到別人,也可以多跟他人建立聯(lián)系。你也許可以給上了年紀(jì)的鄰居送一些食品雜貨,也可以給認(rèn)識的自由職業(yè)者打個電話,問問最近是不是還好。
現(xiàn)在是人與人盡量少接觸的特殊時期,因此,拿起電話,跟人開會、約談,或僅僅只是詢問別人近況如何,這比任何時候都更重要。如果你還有額外的一些技能的話,你還可以拿這些技能去做些好事?!皠e忘了,不管你有什么情緒,這都是正常的,這是一種集體經(jīng)歷,別人也會有同樣的情緒?!卞X伯斯說。
別怕求助
與此同時,為了度過這段孤單的特殊時期,該求助時別猶豫?!斑@段時間里,我們需要人類團(tuán)結(jié)起來,一起共同應(yīng)對挑戰(zhàn),這個時期的人們都會更樂于助人,對他人的需求也更有同情心,”錢伯斯說。疫情中,誰也不是孤島,只要需要,可以隨時打電話求助,就算不是朋友也可以。
特殊時期,也可以尋求各種專業(yè)機(jī)構(gòu)或其它地方民間、政府組織的熱線幫助。別怕求助,尋求專業(yè)咨詢并不等于承認(rèn)自己情況已經(jīng)很糟糕,但專業(yè)咨詢師可以識別一些危險的信號,幫助梳理來訪者情緒,評估創(chuàng)傷狀況,也可以提供一些有用的知識和資源。(財富中文網(wǎng))
譯者:梁宇
審校:夏林
責(zé)編:雨晨
Hannah, a freelance marketer and publicist, usually works from home but has a couple meetings a week. That is, she used to have them. Now, with her clients’ budgets uncertain in the midst of the coronavirus pandemic, even Zoom meetings are being postponed, and her work has suddenly moved solely to email interactions.
“We may be used to working from home and working alone, but this is on another level,” she says. “As someone I met on a Zoom networking event said, it’s business unusual. I think for many people the uncertainty of how long this will continue is the worst bit.”
Rebecca, a copywriter, has noticed the natural comparison between the self-employed and people with regular jobs. Her husband, now working from home, has a daily meeting with his team via Zoom and a pretty active WhatsApp chat going on. “Seeing the adapted office camaraderie firsthand has highlighted the fact that us freelancers don’t have that level of colleague connection.”
“Social connection boosts both our physical health and our mental health,” says Lee Chambers, an environmental psychologist. Although self-employed workers can have their families or partners at home, the lack of a corporate framework, plus the inability to spend periods of time outdoors and being on lockdown in a place designed for relaxation, “can leave these workers feeling like they have no one to express these anxieties to,” she says, affecting their well-being and mental health.
“If we don’t make a concerted effort to address this,” Chambers says, “it will become increasingly difficult to cope” with isolation, which in turn can cause stress, anxiety, and depression. So what to do?
Reach out to your friends
While it may seem counterintuitive since you can’t physically see them, this can be a great opportunity to grow and reinvest in your friendships. “Now is the perfect time to make your social connection a priority and build it into your working life,” says Chambers. Odds are all your friends, even those working in a team, are struggling to adjust to this new dynamic. They certainly miss having friends around. “Schedule a call with your close friends,” he suggests. “Be intentional with it, and book it in like a meeting. Talk to them about how they are feeling, and ask if there is anything you can do to help.”
Collaborate with other freelancers
Whether you join a Zoom group or find a freelance buddy to check in with every other day on how you’re doing, connecting with other freelancers can provide you a “team” of sorts. Chambers suggests keeping each other company while working on your goals and bouncing ideas off each other for work and your mental health during this time. Just as Rebecca sees her husband connecting with workers, it’s possible to create this environment with others.
Make sure you have a schedule
As hard as it is when you are stuck at home, outline what you’re going to do each day—and which friend you’re chatting with! Whether that means making your bed before you do anything else, outlining your tasks for the day, or taking a lunch break without your laptop before you, planning is important. Also, while it’s tempting to work from bed (who’s going to know, right?), don’t do it. Chambers advises getting dressed for work as if you were still going to a coworking space and incorporating working breaks into your day.
Define the end of your workday
Under normal circumstances, self-employed workers find it hard enough to end the day without someone telling them to sign off. Now, with literally nowhere to go, it feels almost impossible to walk away from the computer for the day. So Chambers suggests creating plans for the evening you can look forward to. “Maybe you can cook and create something delicious, make time to watch something from your favorite series, or put the kids to bed and read them a story,” he says. “Don’t forget to connect with the loved ones right there with you for the journey.”
Find a way to help others
Collectively we’re all struggling right now, so lending a helping hand (figuratively!) can help you connect with and help others. As Chambers says, “Maybe you can spare some groceries for your elderly neighbor. How about calling another freelancer you know and seeing if they are okay?” In this time of minimal communication, it’s more important than ever to pick up the phone and conduct meetings, interviews, or regular checkup calls. You can also offer a skill of yours for free for a good cause. “Don’t forget that whatever you are feeling, you are not alone, it’s part of a shared human experience many others will be feeling,” says Chambers.
Don’t be scared to ask for help
At the same time, don’t hesitate to ask for help yourself to get through this period of isolation. “During this time, when we are all coming together as a species to fight against a bigger challenge, we all become more helpful and compassionate toward others’ needs,” says Chambers. No one is alone in this, and you can always call someone other than your friends if you need to.