四招幫助大學(xué)畢業(yè)的子女找到工作
????在他看來(lái),在應(yīng)屆生子女求職過(guò)程中,父母所能發(fā)揮的最有價(jià)值(同時(shí)也是困難)的作用就是既要做到“輔助”,同時(shí)也要幫助他們認(rèn)清現(xiàn)實(shí)?!凹议L(zhǎng)們應(yīng)該鼓勵(lì)應(yīng)屆畢業(yè)生子女去了解哪些行業(yè)在蓬勃發(fā)展,哪些行業(yè)已日薄西山,同時(shí)還要判斷未來(lái)的趨勢(shì)和機(jī)會(huì),”他說(shuō)。你最好還要告訴他們“當(dāng)下最重要的便是著手開始做一份工作,不要過(guò)于在意這份工作是否是自己的‘理想職業(yè)’,”德朗補(bǔ)充說(shuō)。“在職業(yè)生涯的初期,哪怕是一份你并不喜歡的工作也能讓你獲益匪淺?!?/p> ????如果你的孩子在戲劇、電影這些行業(yè),或者說(shuō)是那些拿著大學(xué)文憑卻只能做泊車或服務(wù)員的行業(yè),你該怎么辦?“這些行業(yè)中當(dāng)然也有出類拔萃的人,”他說(shuō)?!暗頌楦改?,你也必須確保自己的孩子了解,他們現(xiàn)在所做的選擇會(huì)對(duì)自己的未來(lái)產(chǎn)生怎樣的影響?!?/p> ????祝你好運(yùn)。
????如果你曾經(jīng)幫助自己的子女在如今慘淡的經(jīng)濟(jì)環(huán)境下找到工作,你覺得你在哪方面對(duì)他們幫助最大(或最?。繗g迎在下面留言。(財(cái)富中文網(wǎng)) ????譯者:唐昕昕??? |
????By his lights, a valuable (and difficult) part of parents' role is being supportive while still acting as a reality check. "Encourage new grads to learn about what industries are growing now and which ones aren't, and where the opportunities are likely to be in the future," he says.You might also mention that "the point right now is to start somewhere, without worrying too much about whether it's the ideal job," DeLong adds. "Especially at the outset of a career, even a job you don't like will teach you a lot." ????What if your child is going into, say, drama, film, or some other field where lots of other talented people are parking cars or waiting tables? "Of course, a few of those people do get their big break," he notes. "But parents need to make sure kids understand the likely consequences of any choice they make now." ????Good luck. ????Talkback: If you've helped a son or daughter find a job in this tough economy, what helped the most (or least)? Leave a comment below. |
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